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Many daters associate divorced people with excess baggage.
While there can be some red flags (like if his relationship ended because he was unfaithful), people who've been through a divorce tend to have a deeper, more realistic perspective on marriage than those haven't.
And, oh yeah this is what we're up to" yadda, yadda yadda. I mean, I don't mind the children - I have dated a guy with a baby boy before - but everything seems secretive, like they can't know about me and I am only tenatively invited to a celebration where everyone will be (we've been dating for almost 6 months - am I expecting too much? I mean, I read these other posts and it seems like everyone else has been introduced to the kids somewhat right away.
I resent te fact that I am somewhat a secret and as of now I have obviously been placed at slot #2 - don't you agree? I mean I really love this guy, but I can not be in a reltionship where I will always be number 2.
"Many men have openly shared with me that they'd love to 'make a marriage right this time.'" Andrea, 47, who met her husband on Christian Mingle.com, experienced this phenomenon first-hand.
"Our previous marriages and subsequent divorces taught us what's important to fight for and how not to sweat the small stuff," she says.5. "Many marriages fail because men didn't realize that they wanted a woman with certain traits the first time around," says relationship expert April Masini,author of "Now they do, and you benefit from a man who's clear on this."Divorcés' straightforwardness can save you a lot of dating guesswork, adds clinical psychologist Ramani Durvasula, Ph D."They may be more upfront about their limitations and strengths resulting in less game-playing and time wasted in relationships that won't work."6. Consummating a marriage gives divorced guys a leg up on pure bachelors in the bedroom.
A new relationship is meant to be between two people.